How do you communicate what you care about? Are you harmonious or divisive? Are you coming from a place of fear & anger? Are you upset, but hopeful? Are you coming from a place of love, logic, vulnerability, vigor, & respect? If you are coming from the latter it is scary at first, but your thoughts will be welcomed. Incongruously, people who are too afraid to be vulnerable will come at you in an attacking manner while trying to achieve an agreement through fear & verbal assault. This; however, almost always fails... and the fearful bully knows it. So why do they continue? Because they like the fight. Because they prefer discontentment over vulnerability. Because it's "everyone else's fault." ...because they've gone so long deflecting blame, that they do not know how to feel anything without it. Want to be happy? Live in harmony with the peace of mind knowing that you need and are working on your own journey instead of being consumed with judging others. If you think other people are wrong yet cannot admit your own faults; you'll be stuck an on angry-go-round.
Responsible hippie, lover of rock 'n' roll, positive vibe merchant.